Things that spouses do not consider

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2024-05-15

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Farewell with the phrase (May Allah bless you, my beloved husband; or come back safely, we are waiting for you). The wife may not consider that this farewell has any importance in her husband’s heart? So you neglect this valuable behavior!

And when the wife neglects to greet her husband after his return with a smile and an attractive appearance, welcoming him with the most beautiful terms of meeting; And do not look at its effect on the husband’s soul; Will the husband carry in his heart a blame against her for her negligence in greeting him?

The anniversary of your wedding or engagement is viewed by the wife as an important event for her. While the husband does not pay attention to that memory and forgets it or neglects to remember it through events and activities that make the wife happy by surprising her with some valuable gifts, for example, or accompanying her to a perfect meal in a luxurious restaurant !

A beautiful initiative without an occasion, such as surprising her with a bouquet of roses, a bottle of high-end brand perfume, a trip, and the like. The husband may not view such activities and initiatives as having importance and impact on his wife, so he neglects them except in rare cases!

Husband and wife sometimes do not pay attention to what their partner is thinking, and they may not care about what one of them sees as having an emotional impact on their relationship, so they hide it within their hearts!! They are supposed to resort to frankness in an appropriate manner.

Some purposeful series and successful social educational films are often an opportunity for the husband or wife to express their motives, which some may be ashamed to reveal directly or think that it may be trivial in the eyes of the other!

Many wives pay great attention to the wedding ring and are loyal to not taking it off, while some husbands neglect the ring and do not look at it as something essential!!!

The husband must seek out his wife’s desires and what she would like to see in him or what he should initiate for her sake, including activities that she prefers and desires. All he has to do is be smart or innovative...

Knowing what women in general and wives in particular are thinking is something that does not require further research and thinking...

The wife should pay close attention to what other women do - whether she is her friends, relatives, or her mother, as she is the closest role model to her if she sees them as ideal - so she can try to learn from their experiences and imitate their activities, or be innovative and creative, and then do a surprise There are wonderful things that the husband is waiting for, such activities that delight him and deepen the affection and harmony between them.

While ignoring such events and activities, may lead to the accumulation of frustration; Hence the swelling of the emotional tract and then the explosion that may lead to disagreement and then separation!

Judge Joseph Sabbath, who divorced nearly forty thousand spouses, says: “You always find triviality at the heart of every marital misery. For example, the wife’s omission to say ‘goodbye’ to her husband while waving to him While he was leaving for work in the morning, something trivial but very important. What led to divorce!! Do not neglect simple gestures, for they have a great importance in marriage.