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The arrogant father expects that when he sleeps, all family members must be silent out of respect for him, that no one should speak or make a sound so that he can sleep and have a complete rest. If a child shouts, or a door closes due to the wind and makes a sound, or something falls on the ground, he wakes up from sleep, causing a storm and rebuking all the family members, but in the opinion of this arrogant father, others rest time is not important, and he gives himself the right to scream when everyone is asleep, or He closes the door forcefully, causing everyone to jump out of their sleep, disturbing them, and then none of them is allowed to object.
Abusive parents
The children of this family, as a result of the father's undirected misbehavior, grow up angry and in a bad nervous state, feeling humiliated within themselves, and gradually developing a contempt complex. They are forced to be subjected throughout childhood to all kinds of difficulties and discomfort under the circumstances in which they live, because they are young and weak. They cannot react to the harsh actions of a strong father, or defend themselves.
The big problem in family's begin when the children pass the childhood stage and enter the stage of youth and strength, at a time when they are filled with bitter and sad memories of childhood, and they are tormented with contempt that they found as a result of the father’s harsh actions. In such a family we find, on one hand, an arrogant father who, in the past, was superior and covers up his inner contempt complex by controlling and placing pressure on his young children. On the other hand, we see that the children have now become strong young men. Not only do they not obey their difficult father, as they were in childhood, but they have been afflicted with the contempt complex, they want, like the father, to prove their existence by demonstrating their ability, in order to make the family members fear them, so they take matters into their own hands and compensate for the contempt complex. It is obvious that in such circumstances the family is an arena for quarrels and lack of understanding, and for this reason we see that the children stand up to Parents and resist them in order to achieve their goals. The result is that security and comfort are taken away from the home, and there is a storm of disagreement, so life becomes unusual and very bad.
Treatment of misunderstanding:
In such cases, parents and young children must follow reason and the public interest, abandon fanaticism and arrogance, and abandon wrong desires, so that they can solve their problems together, pave the way for harmony and good understanding, and provide harmony so that they can continue life in serenity and friendship.
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