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There may be a justification for not befriending people, but what is the justification for not befriending your children? Why do some fathers not find the opportunity to befriend their children? Aren't children the closest people to you, the fruit of your heart and the apple of your eye?
It is no secret that a father is in dire need of deepening his relationship with his children and maintaining its purity.
His responsibility requires raising his children and correcting their behavior; He is in constant contact with them in order to influence them. Can a father, as an educator, play the role of education without being a friend to the person he wants to guide, direct and educate? The answer is definitely: No!
In order to achieve success in raising children, it is necessary for the relationship to reach the level of friendship.
It is noticeable that the child is strongly attached to whoever tries to befriend him and get close to him, whether it is one of his parents or any other person.
If you want to be a close friend to your son or daughter, you should follow the following methods:
- Tell them useful stories: The most effective way to befriend children is (telling them stories). Children gather around those who tell them stories, and there are many useful story books that carry lessons and morals, especially if they are read in an enjoyable and interesting style that attracts children and entertains them as well.
- Show interest in them: The child has a sense of his personality, so he loves appreciation and interest in what he offers and desires to hear praise for it, especially in front of others. Perhaps you can notice this in your child - or in other children - how your son comes to you and shows you his paintings that he drew with his own hand, and the toys that he bought or made himself.
- Always get close to them, befriend them and talk to them: In order to start strengthening the relationship with any person you want to befriend, you must get close to him, take him with you and engage in conversation with him. Companionship and conversation are the first steps to building friendship with your children.
- Take the initiative to offer them help even if they do not ask you for it: Helping children and fulfilling their needs by parents shows the extent of sincerity and shows love, and thus increases the consolidation of the relationship. The types of help vary between removing obstacles, preparing school assignments, solving their social problems, and guiding them on the right path in life.
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