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How do you train your mind to notice the color gray?
10:30:7 2024-05-07 1259

Some people tend to think in a way (either black or white) and cannot tolerate the presence of a color that mediates between the two!

It is similar to the method of logical thinking known as the second division: the method of repeating between negation and affirmation, through which some concepts are divided into their components, such as dividing an animal into a speaking and a non-speaking, and a word is a name, a verb, or a letter... This method of thinking is useful in scientific issues and it cannot always be useful in social relations.

It is incorrect for spouses to think in a way (either white or black) without being able to tolerate the presence of (gray).

Either she is a 100% good wife or not?!

Either the student is 100% good or he is a failure?

Either my friend is perfect or not??

Either the employee is 100% skilled or he is rejected?

They think in a completely closed way!

This logic in dealings and social relations always leads its owners into psychological, moral, familial and social problems and crises!!!

Their marital life fails for the most trivial reason, and their friends alienate them, and they are vulnerable to clashes. They are overcome by tension in the way they deal with others... because they prefer the answer to be in one color, either white or black!!!

In order to train your mind to get rid of this dry and repulsive style, you must open the knots that restrict your thinking and train your mind in expectation and possibility - and in our words - seeing the gray color that is in the middle of white and black.

Remember the consequences of your social relationships; How did the condition turn out? Is it good and positive, or is it bad?! Repeat this thinking to yourself until you reduce the intensity of dichotomy and expect other possibilities.

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