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In reality, marriage is a kind of connection and union between two different worlds and two lives that have different characteristics. Marriage does not mean shedding the characteristics of the spouses, but rather means enjoying life together and feeling stability and tranquility in the shades of a shared life.
Therefore, such a life should rise on the basis of mutual love, serenity and optimism, otherwise it cannot continue in peace.
Among the problems that impede joint life is pessimism and mistrust that threaten family peace. Because it undermines the bonds of understanding at its inception, and thus sparks conflict.
Pictures of mistrust:
Mistrust results in the emergence of marital conflict in the family through some causes and reasons. Sometimes mistrust appears in the economic aspect, where one of the two parties feels that the other hides this aspect without him. The woman may think - for example - that her husband receives a salary much more than he announces and that he may save it or spend it in resources of which she is unaware.
And another time, doubt appears in another aspect related to chastity and the purity of the dress, while there is only doubt that usually results from jealousy.
Sometimes mistrust emerges from the sense of conspiracy, where one of the parties becomes suspicious and thinks that the other is conspiring against him, and that he may aim to eliminate him. When we delve deeper into it, we find nothing but love that is lost behind piles of misunderstanding and failure to show these mutual emotions and common affection.
devastating effects:
Pessimism in all its forms has devastating effects on marital life, and it may sometimes lead to divorce and the breakdown of the family, or it may damage the reputation of one of the parties who finds himself in a difficult situation in which he is unable to restore his dignity.
Mistrust first undermines the foundation of the union between the spouses and makes them lose their ability to continue, as this is evident through idle conversations, expressions of contempt, and seeing life through a dark lens and that it is full of pain that cannot be cured.
Another danger that may result from mistrust is the disappearance of the sense of pride and dignity, which puts the life of the spouses in imminent danger, as marital life requires both parties to protect the other, and the state of mistrust means the disappearance of this aspect and the exposure of reality, so to speak.
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