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One of the spouses imagines that he will achieve all his wishes under the shadow of marriage without bearing responsibilities, and that life will be furnished with basil, ignorant of the laws of life that have their own calculations that are different from his.
Living in rosy dreams about an ideal marriage may drag married life into a circle of conflict and disagreement; due to shocks and disappointments.
Researchers mentioned that there are many reasons behind these dreams and wishes that may put the spouses in front of continuous problems: -
First - Selfishness is a major cause of all problems; some husbands suffer from a tendency to control because of their arrogance about their personality, so they impose their opinion on others in an arbitrary manner, and thus problems occur.
Secondly, some women listen to some fools and are affected by their honeyed talk, which is in fact deadly poison, and because of this incitement, negative results occur that appear in their relationship with their husbands, such as coldness and discord.
Thirdly, one of the spouses tries to test the other and reveal his secrets; to discover the extent of his willingness to give and sacrifice for him, if some of those ambitions are not achieved, he will live in a state of doubts that may end up destabilizing the relationship between them.
Fourth - Problems occur because one of the spouses feels that the other does not care about the effort they exert in order to obtain a living, as they feel loneliness and psychological pain, so sad feelings accumulate in their depths and quickly explode for some reason in the form of a dispute or disagreement as an expression of revenge.
Fifth - Some husbands and wives are weak in tolerance and patience; as they look forward to living in luxury, and it is known that maintaining the response to the demand and desires does not remain constant; the slightest shortcoming will provoke the other party and make him resentful of his partner.
Sixth - The absence of the logic of understanding between the spouses, and the lack of awareness of each other's personality, may be due to the difference in intellectual and age levels, the intersection of beliefs, and the difference in social convictions, which results in an intersection and clash that shakes the marital life and threatens its continuity.
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