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Spouses resort to anger, and the husband, for example, refrains from talking to his wife or interacting with her. Also, if she becomes upset, she may not talk to him or change her usual behavior with him.
Is this situation similar to the behavior of children? When a child gets angry, he gets upset and does not pay attention to his mother or father! Or he doesn't interact with his friends!
Is the couple’s upset an extension of childhood?! Is it a solution to the problem that occurs between them?
The spouses must be mature and aware, as they are partners in everything, and sadness disrupts the cooperation between them in always completing tasks. In order for the spouses to take a path away from anger, we present six ideas to correct convictions about the negativity of sadness:
First: Return to yourselves for accountability. What are the consequences of anger? Will the problem be solved if dealing continues like this? Who is upset, the adult or the child?
Second: The consequence of anger may be dangerous for the marital relationship. The endurance capacities between spouses are not equal. The wife may resort to total aversion, and thus separation occurs!
Third: Think without emotions, as if you were both working in a company and getting upset will stop production and disrupt the workflow, and this is what rational people do not accept.
Fourth: You should leave sadness outside the bedroom and live with the newlyweds’ emotions and wishes when you meet in your private room! Neither of you will sleep unless you make up.
Fifth: If you both see anger as a door to deepening pride and affection, then you feel that you are achieving a rapprochement of another type through anger, then do not let it be prolonged, and let it be for a few hours, then return to harmony.
Sixth: Understanding and dialogue is the strategy that you should adopt in the dictionary of solving problems, not to think of anger as a term used to annoy your partner. You are a couple, not competitors or merchants!
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